Success Is Built On Small Simple Steps Taken Each Day!
Read on for our secret to success...
Some people ask how we do what we do... The idea is to make an obtainable action plan in place to achieve your desires one step at a time and take you from where you are NOW to where you WANT to be... Focus on progress, not perfection.
What’s your why? What motivates you? What drives you? What is your passion? Your bliss? Your happiness? Your fun? Your dream? Your goals? Your definition of success? Most of us have some sort of goal we are trying to reach, even if we haven’t fully formulated the goal in our mind. We want to try something new, break an old habit, be successful at work or at play. Sometimes these goals can be a bit vague in their scope without a defined path toward achieving the goal, a sort of general sense of wanting to be healthier, lower our blood pressure, manage our stress, achieve success at work or at sport, be a better friend, spouse, parent, employer, employee, athlete, student…person. You know, the bigger picture things we want to accomplish. The things we have defined for ourselves as “success”. But sometimes the big picture is so big, we don’t know what steps to take to get us there.
The goal can seem overwhelming; we may feel we don’t have the time or the resources or we don’t see what steps we can take to get ourselves there. We don’t know where to start so we make excuses. Or the goal isn’t really ours, it’s something we feel like we should do. It’s not our “why”. Or we don’t start because we think we’ll fail. Oftentimes, this is because we set unrealistic expectations and believe that if we’re not perfect in our pursuit, we’re a failure. But we’re human. We’re imperfect. It’s what makes us each unique. And awesome! Strive for progress, not perfection.
Perfection should never be the goal because the outcome will always be failure. This doesn’t mean we don’t set the bar high, absolutely we set the bar high. But we focus on progress, not perfection. On the process, on the now, not the outcome. On the steps along the path. We focus on the journey, not the destination. We strive for improvement, learning, growth, understanding. We strive for excellence and awesomeness, but still allow for imperfection. For wiggle room. For the knowledge and comfort that even if we veer off the path for a bit, the path is still within our reach and we’re still heading in the right direction.
So where do we start? To truly make a lasting change, it has to be a change that is meaningful to us, not just to others. It can’t be something we feel is imposed upon us rather than chosen by us. It has to be something that we value, that we believe in, that we can get behind and commit to because we know the work will be worth it. We have to ask ourselves why we want to make the change. And we have to be honest with ourselves. It has to be something that is meaningful, that we can call upon when we’re struggling along our journey that will help to keep us on the right path. Something that will help us keep putting one foot in front of the other, to keep making progress, when the going gets tough.
Once we know our why, we need to write it down. We need to write down the goal, the big picture we’re trying to get to, and we need to write down our why, the reason or reasons we want to achieve our goal. And we need to keep it somewhere we can readily reference, to keep us on track. Then we need to focus on the how.
What can we do right now to help us reach our goal? It’s good to know the big goal is there, but now we just focus on the process. To ultimately be successful, we want to just focus on the steps along the path that will help us to reach the bigger goal. The baby steps. The small changes. One at a time. Say we want to “get healthier”, there are all kinds of ways we can get healthier. To support our physical and mental health we could eat more nourishing foods, cook more at home, sleep better, move our bodies more frequently, meditate, get outside every day, practice to improve our skills at a favorite sport or hobby, learn a new skill. The list is endless, and can be just as overwhelming as the big picture when you look at all of the possible options. This can make taking the first steps to trying something new or achieving success in some arena of our lives is difficult.
So we hone it down even further. To make the process more manageable, we focus on just one task, one small change, that will help us to achieve our goal over time. Say we want to get healthier and we don’t eat a whole lot of plants. Our task, our small change, can be to eat a serving of vegetables with each meal. That’s it. That’s what we focus on doing. And we do it to the best of our ability. That's the SECRET: it has to be super simple doable steps... so you can get that win and then have gratification of that win and desire to stick with it.
If we hit a bump in the road or we veer off track, that’s ok. We’re human. We’re imperfect. That’s what makes us unique and fabulous. We just find the path again and keep moving forward. Pretty soon that one small thing becomes a habit. It’s just part of our daily lives. And we’re miles closer to that big picture goal. Once that first small thing becomes easy, we focus on the next task, the next change. We keep making progress. We keep moving forward... And before you know it your life has transformed!!!
So don't stay overwhelmed and settle for less than you are capable of. Get clear on what you want and decide to take one doable step towards that goal.
Set new goals, break old barriers, and compete against yourself — not the impossible. Hopefully this has inspired you to get into action and make progress toward your goal by making small simple steps each and every day.